an ambiance of good principles and family values!
(Painting by John Walters)
The socially destructive results of this individualistic, fast paced mentality are endless. But certainly the greatest problems arise within the home: Who will do the housework? Who will care for the babies? Who will educate the children? Who will cook the dinner? Who will create an ambiance of warmth, comfort and love in the extra touches? Who will have time to celebrate the special occasions like birthdays and feast days in a homemade way?
Is it possible that these things are not getting done? Or at least, not being prioritized? Is the tremendous vocation of motherhood going out of fashion?
There is no place for such a very Christian role as mother in a society that does not value Christianity. Marriage, the pillar of family life is under tremendous assault. It is marketed as a series of romantic good times where it is possible to take lots of pictures to be liked on social media. This is not real life! This dangerously superficial attitude destroys families and also takes away from the dignity of the respective work of mother and father. Deprived of healthy families, many turn to online meetups to find a social life. Local biking, jogging, workout, crafting, even dating groups are formed in this way. This type of artificial meeting may be temporarily enjoyable. But the bond of friendship includes good times AND bad times which is hard to accept for those who only signed up for the good. After all, there is no greater love than sacrifice which is at the center of every successful family. It is not until we put Heaven at the end of our quest for happiness that we will be content on earth. And divine providence will step in to shape our lives.
Today's families must make an intentional investment in quality time spent together- an old-fashioned tonic for the soul. Turn off all the electronics and bring out the conversation, stories and games! The mother especially has tremendous influence when she creates an ambiance of good principles and family values.
It must be realized that some mothers encounter unimaginable sufferings in their vocation. And possibly this is why they go away and get a job or are often out of the house. Does it help to recall that the greater the difficulty, the greater the grace that is right there to assist you? A wise mother once told me that when God sends what seems like unbearable suffering it is a call to come very close to Him, but the sad thing is that many of us turn away from God at these times and fall hard. The merit of sacrifice is after all impossible without grace.
I realized recently that the happier I am at home, the less I feel a need do online networks or go out places just to socialize. Instead, most of our friends we just see during the course of our regular routine. This might not be true for everyone. I come from a large family and also have many supporting friends around me. But my friend who is also a mother was the first to notice this and many others agree.
WHAT DO YOU THINK??